If You’re Indecisive About Something – How Do You Choose?

If You’re Indecisive

About Something

– How Do You Choose?

Indecision is a curious teacher. It usually appears when we’re standing at a crossroads — sometimes big, sometimes laughably small.

The Universe whispers, “Trust yourself,” but our minds pipe up with, “Yes, but what if I make the wrong choice and everything unravels?”

The truth is, indecision isn’t a punishment. It’s a pause. A little cosmic tea- break designed to let us tune in and remember that we’re not just brains with to-do lists—we’re souls having an adventure. So how do we choose, spiritually speaking, without driving ourselves (or everyone around us) slightly mad?

Spirit rarely sends an answer in neon lights (though that would be nice). More often it’s a nudge, a gentle knowing, or that quiet tug in your chest. If you feel calm, expanded, or a little sparkly about one option, that’s usually your Higher Self giving you a wink.

Yes, even spiritually speaking, flipping a coin works. Not because the Universe cares about heads or tails, but because your reaction reveals your heart. If you’re secretly hoping for “heads,” well, there’s your guidance. Divine wisdom delivered via pocket change.

Your body is a tuning fork for truth. Be aware - does one choice make you feel lighter, freer, maybe even giggly? That’s usually the soul’s “yes.” If another makes you feel heavy, tight, or like you suddenly need a nap—that’s probably a “no.”

Imagine the wiser, calmer you five years down the line. Which path would they thank you for? Future You has the benefit of hindsight, without the drama of right now.

Here’s the great cosmic joke: there really aren’t “wrong” choices. Each path teaches, shapes, and expands us. Even the so-called mistakes carry hidden gifts. So, if you pick the mousse when the cheesecake was calling, don’t fret. The lesson might be that next time, you order both.

Indecision isn’t about choosing perfectly—it’s about learning to trust that the Universe has your back no matter what.

Once you relax into that truth, decision-making becomes lighter, funnier, and yes—sometimes delightfully illogical.

So, when you’re torn between paths, pause, breathe, smile, and pick the one that makes your soul grin. The rest will unfold beautifully, because that’s how life works.

 Try it and see!
Love & Light

 Roger

“You are coming from the point towards which you are going.”